When it comes to looking back at the results of making some decisions, do you love yourself through it or judge yourself through it?
We all have an inner mean girl and can get way in our heads about how we HAVE to do something a certain way to get a result. Then we beat ourselves up when we experience the results of that. It is what we often lead with in making choices every single day! And it becomes easy to ignore what we are actually feeling in our heart and bodies and what we know is best for us, when we allow ourselves the space to tune in.
This week, I had the opportunity to sit down with Nikole and Jay, founders of the Couple Cofounders Podcast, where we had a discussion about why we do this and how to stop the spiral of shoulding all over ourselves!
In it, I talk about my own personal story about how I was leading in service at both my job and in my business from feeling "I should" and "I have to" and where it led me (with a bad injury that was life changing). We talk about my comeback story and the lessons I learned along the way. (today I am healed and doing great!)
You will learn why we lead with these thoughts and how to shift them, so that you can experience success and be of service, but also experience more ease and grace as you go for those big vision goals (and how, in fact, this quantum leaps your personal breakthroughs and financial success in your business).